"Closure" Do we need it?

Posted on Saturday, July 05, 2008 - 6 comments -

I found a very nice reading the other day and really inspired me a lot. It really amazed me that a not so tabloid paper has sense at all… This reading came from Inquirer Libre. Yup! The ones we can get for free in MRT and LRT stations. I loved their Zodiac Readings, so uproarious. This portion of the reading is also flying in the airways of SMS, maybe it really hit hard to those people who encountered this “closure’ thingy. Break up is hard to overcome and closure is the first step to do. Hope you’ll like this too…

Uso ngayon ang terminong “CLOSURE

It’s to indicate the formal break-up of two parties involved in a romantic relationship. Mahalagang mangyari ito dahil isa siyang malinaw na indikasyon ng pagtatapos ng ugnayan ng dalawang tao.

Kapag wala kasing closure, parang bitin.

Hindi maka-move on.

So bakit nga dusa kapag walang closure?

May tinatawag ang mga psychologists na “open” and “closed” memories ng mga tao. Ang mga isyung bitin o hindi na-resolba ay tinuturing na “open” memories.

Open Memories are the ones we still struggle to understand. We think about them often, and still see them as relevant to our current lives.


/xoxo/

There has been 6 Responses to '"Closure" Do we need it?' so far

  1. Anonymous

    nice..^_^
    "closure" need talaga nga ata sa isang rel...hehe

  2. Anonymous

    yap it is very important to have closure to alot of things not merely closure in a relationship. it is very hard to liv thing hangin kasi qng ganun eiii things might go into a big mess.... anyway nice 1 juz

  3. Juzzie says:

    thanks miatch and cuz!

  4. Spinster's Loading Brain says:

    nice one... unfortunately not all people can handle "closure" dat easy, sometimes it needs time. Me & my ex took us 2 years after ending our 7 yr rel. One thing im sure of is that first we must forgive ourselves before forgiving others. Trust me been there already done it!

  5. Anonymous

    hmmm??closure???yah its important...
    yes and i agree that not all can handle this thing some are afraid of this but it could really help even it hurts...
    having closure means its time to move on and be happy again!
    :)

  6. PRUE HALLIWEL :: OBSERVER OF LIFE says:

    open memories can be a biatch... hahaha!

    been there... done that... going there again... oh like hell...

    let's just laugh at it...

    can we?